读懂女人那些口是心非的诗歌话语
读懂女人那些口是心非的诗歌话语
When she is mad at you-”I'm not mad at you"(I'm mad at you)"I'm fine"(I'm not fine)Anyone who's been in a relationship has probably heard these things a million times before. Perhaps the only thing more damning than "I'm mad at you" is "I'm not mad at you." Maybe you're in a relationship where all the communication is completely 100% transparent, but we're not betting on it.当你让她抓狂的时候-"我不生气“（我生气着呢）”我好得很“（我不好）这些话谈过恋爱的人估计都听过无数次。比“你让我抓狂”更让人抓狂的莫过于“没事，我好着呢”。或者这段恋爱关系中的交流看似100%显而易见，但我们可不这么认为哦。
When she is not into you-Rejecting someone can be really awkward, and a lot of girls go out of their way to distance themselves without actually coming out and saying it. Chances are, she's not going to spell it out for you in bold, capital letters. She's going to keep dropping hints and really, really hope you get the message. Hopefully you've become wise to a lot of these subtle rejections, but if you hear them on a regular basis and still keep trying, maybe it's time to take a step back.当她不喜欢你的时候-拒绝别人有时候真的蛮尴尬的，很多女生会用自己的方式保持距离而非当面说出口。问题在于，她并不会把字母一个个拼出来放在你面前。而是不断地留下暗示并且非常非常希望你能明白。希望你对这些善意的拒绝有了一定的了解，如果你已经接收到暗示仍不死心，我劝你还是撤吧。
When You're In The Friend Zone-If you've ever been knee-deep in the friend zone and tried to take things to the next level, you've probably heard some of these phrases before. What you failed to realize is that there is no next level from the friend zone. It's the final frontier of loneliness. You've been caring, supportive, and always there for her. Kind of like a mother. And you wonder why she doesn't want to sleep with you.当你是蓝颜知己的身份时-如果你已经是女生的蓝颜知己还想进一步往下发展，这几句话大概都不陌生。你要明白除去朋友别无其他可能。这是孤独交际的边界线。也许你很困惑明明已经关心，支持甚至一直为她守候。像妈妈那样。她为什么就是不愿意做你女朋友。
When she's breaking up with you-If you've ever been broken up with before, you've undoubtedly heard some of these. Chances are, the flame died a long time ago, and she's been trying to work up the courage to break it off for a while. In an effort to end things with the least amount of weeping and protesting on your part, she breaks things off with you in the gentlest way possible.当她和你分手的时候-如果你曾经失恋过，那么肯定听过这些话。事实上，爱火很久之前就已熄灭，她也是努力鼓起勇气来提出分手。尽量让你不过度伤心难过来提出分手已经是她能做到的`最温柔的事情了。
when she is a little unsure-“Do i look OK on this?"(I'm not looking for fashion advice, just pay me a compliment)“So are we together"(Are you still sleeping with other girls?)“I like your friends, but..."(I don't like your friends)”You don't have to buy me a present"(You have to buy me a present)These phrases are mostly tests. Pop quizzes of the relationship world that are easy to fail if you take them at face value. Tread carefully, friends, for these phrases are not what they seem.当她有点不确定时-"我穿这个怎么样？”（我可不需要什么时尚的建议，赞美就够了）"我们算是在一起了么？”（你还有备胎么？）"我蛮喜欢你朋友们的，但...”（我不喜欢你的朋友们）"不用给我买礼物啦“（我要礼物！）这些话大部分都是试探。在感情的世界中一旦你只注意到表面那么必死无疑啦。谨慎点，这些话可没那么简单哦。
